Notice the moment you reach for the phone again

Some people worry about missing a message. Others feel bored in bed or use scrolling to avoid thinking about tomorrow. For three nights, simply note what happened just before you picked up the phone, which app you opened, and roughly how long you stayed. Observe without judging.

Once you know the trigger, the alternative can be specific. If you fear missing something, tell important contacts when you will be offline. If boredom is the trigger, leave a paper book or familiar audio ready by the bed.

Make the plan only about tonight

  1. Finish charging, alarms, and necessary replies about 15 minutes before bed.
  2. Choose a stopping point you are genuinely willing to follow tonight. Do not compensate for yesterday or aim for an extreme change.
  3. At that point, turn on Focus, Screen Time, or the app restriction you decided to use.
  4. Move the phone off the bed. If you are not sleepy yet, choose a quiet activity that does not demand constant decisions.
  5. Tomorrow, review only one question: what most tempted you to pick the phone up again?

A tool can hold the boundary; you still choose it

Sleep or Die starts only when you confirm. It gives you five minutes to prepare, then reduces distractions from other apps for a fixed period. It cannot make you sleep, but it can reduce the nightly negotiation about whether to keep scrolling.

If you must remain available for work, caregiving, or urgent communication, review the system's retained functions and your real needs before starting a restriction.

Turn the plan into an action

Want to scroll a little less tonight? Start with a five-minute wind-down.

Sleep or Die turns your confirmation into a clear routine: five minutes to prepare, followed by a scheduled reduction in distractions from other apps. It cannot make you sleep, but it can remove one opportunity to change your mind about stopping.

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